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I trust him whole-heartedly when he says he wants to be with me, and things aren't serious with the other girl he is dating.
Overall however I still don't know what will happen.
I've made several statements to him that I am dating other people, and I'm not going to wait around, so he knows time is of the essence.
I'm fairly certain that the girl he is dating is the one he was seeing while we were in No Contact mode, and knowing her personally, she is definitely not long term material and wouldn't even try to be in a committed relationship with him. I find myself asking him things like "do you miss me? I have to show confidence and strength or there is no hope.
In times of doubt I think "oh he just wants to have his cake and eat it too", but then when I look at the evidence and take him for his word, it just really seems like he's not ready to commit and he wants to avoid spending too much time with one specific person until he's ready.
He did take a giant leap in contacting me again as it was against the advice of all of his friends (that's how it usually goes right?
My drop dead date is 7/31 for when I will move on, but he said that he just needs "until August" to try dating, which could mean any time in August.